Analyzing Joe's Relationships from YOU – Therapist Reviews reviews
Joe Goldberg has had quite a few relationships over the past 3 seasons of YOU. I’ll be analyzing his relationships with Beck, Candace, Love, and Marienne.
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Heather Thom Counselling –
Which of Joe's girlfriends was your favorite? Let me know in the comments below!
My left ear enjoyed this video
Shawntal Grant –
Nosipho Mei –
I love Love, believe it or not I relate to her on so many levels (including her killings).
Sjahsuhsjs hsjsjs –
Yall should’ve included Karen & Delilah
Please export your audio in mono
vlogging my life –
Just showed up for love❤
Kiki U –
So hour saying Love and Joes relationship never had a chance??? Why did Joe fall out of love with her?
Cody Cray –
Beck was way to much of the typical white girl, and ngl love was way hotter anyways
Mystery Junkie –
Candace plan made no sense
Mystery Junkie –
Poor Joe all he’s girlfriends cheated on him Candace, Beck, and Love. No wonder he keeps looking for love.
I appreciate that you point out that Candice was traumatized by what Joe did to her. He kidnapped and buried her alive for trying to dump him. How could she not hate him and not want him out there murdering his girlfriends?
I know a lot of people hate Beck but I still prefer Beck’s relationship with Joe because they had more chemistry than Love and Joe in S2. I noticed how he barely talked with Love when they were in the start of their relationship but with Beck, he could talk about their interest in writing, and i loved it when they were making their own words
Carrissa Jean –
I keep hoping Joe will get caught.
Mariah Santucci –
I love Delilah so much… I was so sad when I saw her in the cage….. she didn’t deserve that.
Honestly never forgave Love for that one
Frederick George –
Love is the best character of the show hands down
be my life coach damnit ahha
Nome Cognome –
my right ear liked this video
Pew Umři Koláč –
I ABSOLUTELY ADORE LOVE! 💘💘💘
Laura Goreni –
I liked all female characters with the exception of Beck. She's so superficial.
faerie girl –
love is my favorite 🚬
Dragon Blade –
Funny how everyone in the comments are just going beck was humble this that she was a cheater ffs😂 you gotta understand that in the whole series you have parts where you sympathise with characters but also what they do can no be justified making them negative characters
Mistress Of Carnage –
Idk why but the audio isn't working for me. But I think he should weasle his way in with marian and she ends up killing him in self defense at the end. The "innocent" over powering the "currupt"
Vanesa Terry –
Marianne is me least favorite.
Eliza Moser –
I think a key here is that all these women are flawed and human in their own way– this is important because Joe's problem is his incessant belief in "the One" and how he idealized the women around him. When they ultimately don't meet his false idea of them, he takes it into his own hands to correct things (in Beck's case he puts it as "giving her the life she deserves", which ultimately ends in him killing her so she can get her dream of being a famous writer.) Everything comes to a head in his relationship with Love, as his eyes finally do become open to who she really is as a person and he ultimately ends up wanting to leave her instead of the other way around.
I wish the series would end as is, him searching for Marienne, because it is really the perfect way to leave it: while Joe will continue looking for her, she is the one female character who has embraced her flaws and worked through her trauma the most, and thus has enough streetmarts and independence to not get caught in Joe's web.
Jessica Munguia –
I only watch this show hoping that Joe eventually gets slapped upside the head with reality and so far it hasnt happened. Marienne is the best simply because she had no problem leaving his ass and doing it for herself and her health. Honestly it made no sense why she went for him, joe’s that annoying guy in your 101 class. Although i love the actress i hope she isnt in next season and just lives her best life
I get the vibe that deep down joe hate’s women
Tajae East –
Love had to go too impulsive irrational kills a lot of season 3 is joe taking care of her messes
Shannon Jensen –
I just noticed a little easter egg I've never heard anyone talk about. In the cage scene Beck is wearing a Nirvana shirt. Foreshadowing Anavrin!
Semai Soshul –
I like your videos, but the audio is weird; it sounds slightly muffled, especially when you playback scenes from the show
Micheal yeboah –
You forgot to mention Karen🤣
Sanjana Shibu –
I really enjoyed this video but it leaves out Karen Minty from season 1 🙂
ThePrincessInKenny 6 –
Least favorite of them all is Beck. I have noticed a lot of people have agreed with me. She was just too whiny and annoying. Came off as needy. She was not smart or cunning at all, and didn’t have a strong enough personality. My favorite so far was Love. She was crazy and psychotic but her personality. Amazing acting job!
music 198 –
I think it doesn't matter how cute Joe and Marianne are together because if he is obsessed it always ends the same the poor girl will get killed..
I liked Love because she knew everything about him and still loved him..
Beck was my favorite I was suprised People didnt like her. She was the easiest to relate to and it had the most real storyline that’s based in reality
Socio Logie –
Can do you an analysis of Dan Humpfrey's relationship in Gossip Girls?
Jessica Murillo –
How is Joe not caught by the police yet?
The Bitcoin Baddie –
I love Beck and Candice
Marianne because you never saw him reveal himself to anyone like that before. He even told her he killed his mom's partner to save her.She didn't judge him but understood
please analyze the psychology of yennefer of vengerberg from the witcher, she’s one of the most complex female characters i’ve ever seen, she’s has been through so much stuff and i would really love for you to analyze her;)
Karen minty and Marianne. Seem to be the most none toxic women . That would’ve been better for joe
Jennifer Munessar –
I really like Love and Marrianne the most.
Little Whispers –
Love and Marianne were the most interesting and compelling of the love interests to watch. Candace could've been as well if her backstory was developed more.
Tionda Jacobs –
Joe just keep getting cheated on omg 😂
Veronica Pomar –
I wasnt actually a big fan of Beck and I didn’t really like Candace either but Love Quinn I actually really liked her probably because I really loved the actress who played her.
Duchess Lust Moon type 11a –
My favorite is Candice . The character of Beck , got on my nerves . Although I really like the character of one of her friends , in season one it was the heavier girl that was an Instagram star I can’t remember her name ? it wasn’t the one he killed of course , that was Peach , and in some ways , Peach was far more dangerous than Joe . She was not Suffering from psychopathy ; although she was a true blue sociopath ; ( in the world of psychiatry, and psychology , we are still trying to separate those two personality disorders ) with behavioral characteristics , that Coincide so closely , one would think they are one in the same ? But NO . Although they DO coincide very similar ; they are different , one being more severe than the other.
Peaches 🍑 with her very unhealthy attachment to Beck ; it Showed me her possessive nature , Manipulation ; and she had manipulation skills that were very well thought out , And some came naturally without a thought 💭 making her extremely dangerous not to herself of course but to others as well as being a pathological liar , and histrionic ( suicide Attempts, that were noticed even suicidal ideation that led to despair, for a serious attempt on her life. No ; I want to take my life !! suicide attempt , or even a cry for help ) Her cry for help was to only Beck .but it was not for help whatsoever. it was self-serving
Reasoning. And having manipulation skills came natural , without thought or effort , Made her extremely dangerous when Feeling that she was losing her control over Beck ( And of course this is not Love ❤️ Because when you love someone else you don’t try to hurt them you want what’s best for them And if you think you are bad for their lives and then you go no contact not for yourself but for them ! If you love another human being , you put them first !! And yourself last !! Peaches love for Beck , is called obsessive love ( not the real deal ) Wanting to control her in every aspect of her life , like a puppet or like a puppy dog , obsessive love ; that is not true love , in any sense !! But instead a dangerous love ; For the one that she projects it upon . It’s really wanting to own someone else . Like a car or a handbag I’ve paid for you , and now I own you free and clear , and You have no mind of your own , or free will , or hopes and dreams everything you have as a human being belongs to me ! I’m your master , and you better do as I say , don’t get out of line or I will hurt you in some way shape or form . And she saying how dare you have your own feelings !! it happens every day , eventually she would’ve killed Beck herself for not responding to her affections and her desire to own her . Self -serving Suicide attempts in order to induce pity from Beck ! Beck is a walking talking empath . And a target for narcissist ; and people with bad intentions in mind. A sitting duck to violate or to do harm , and remember these people they have no good intentions whatsoever. their intentions are always to do harm !! And they can hide it well. But eventually it comes out , the mask will fall off , and they wear their person suit perfectly. Nobody in their lives really knows them !
I have earned my PhD in psychology and abnormal psychology in 1998 now we are still studying the differences between true psychopathy ( At The very tip of the dart pyramid , of personality disorders ) and how it coincides with narcissism , histrionic personality disorder , and borderline personality disorder as well. Any personality disorder in The dark triad is dangerous. And these people must be avoided at all cost !! But with my training , as a board-certified psychologist with a PhD in psychology and abnormal psychology , i can see toxic people coming 1,000,000 miles away. I treat them every day , five days a week in my office ; here in Manhattan , on the upper East Side Madison Square , Park Avenue.
But many other people can’t see that . so you need to learn how to avoid toxic dangerous people ! and how to weed them out and remove their mask ! When you get that gut feeling ? Don’t ignore it , that’s a sign that your body and brain and your soul and spirit are s working together as one ☝️ to protect you , something isn’t right about the other person in your life ?? when you get that feeling Don’t ignore it.
Thando Ndlovu –
I preferred Beck i really liked season 1 as the seasons went on the show lost it's deconstruction of toxic romance tropes on TV and Cinema as well as it's view of toxic masculinity or rather problematic elements of masculinity were lost with it
abira mitra –
Beck is the love