A Couples Therapist Explains Iconic Film and TV Relationships reviews
Relationships in movies and TV shows tend to be idealized, so we got a couples therapist to explain what a healthy relationship really looks like.
Special thanks to: Omar Torres
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TSHEPO M – Better to Believe –
damn, it would have been really nice if there was at least one couple of colour… Love Jones? Mississippi Masala? [awkwardly chuckles]
Miles St. John –
literally bae
Ronald Lee –
Hope Floats by Sandra Bullock ?
jude anne *the candor channel* –
Loving the person you can disclose everything to is certainly a beautiful model of intimacy in love.
Katie Pitts –
The meaning of Titanic is that you need to let people go, when one of their main sayings is never let go? I'm not trying to be rude, but as a huge Titanic fan, I don't understand how you got to that conclusion.
Fiana Shapiro –
I love that this had Jack and Rose, and Willow and Tara
Rachel Elizabeth –
The title says he's a couple's therapist, then he says he's a social worker. Hmmm. 🤔
jude anne *the candor channel* –
2:04 Why?
starlightwings –
As I look at this video my eye keeps getting drawn to the left to what appears to be a white laptop lid with the word "Fail" on it-a sticker? Seems an odd thing to have in an otherwise bare video. I am wondering at it's purpose and meaning in relationship to the video and the topic.
paleobc65 –
It got me really emotional when he said "I accept all the parts that you don't like, all the parts that you're not thrilled with…We all have histories that we're not super proud of" I opened up to this girl and I loved her even with her past mistakes and all and yet she judged me
Grainne Mhaol –
I'm genuinely worried about the number of toxic relationships that are romanticised. Damon and Elena, Chuck and Blair, pretty much anyone Rory dated on Gilmore Girls.
Kyle Caudill –
She didn't have to let him go. She should have pulled his ass up and used him like a blanket.
Tex Poseidon –
Oh i so hate jack & rose, there was room on the debri or floating object she was on, for him to also climb onto 🙄 rose kinda ‘killed’ jack, just saying.
A.r. –
My takeaways…
1. When dating simple ask "Do I want to see this person 1 more time?"
2. when there's "silent treatment" ask "what does the silence mean?"
…this is life-changing wisdom 😐
Swoosh –
This HAS to be a series PLEASE
Mughworts Longshot –
"Relationships aren't a la carte"
I'm stealing that sentence.
Emma Lucente –
I love how Willow and Tara’s relationship was on here!
A Path To Love –
I think Jack was a real kick start, symbolically, for Rose to get to live a life she could really be happy. She was stuck in her social bubble and her love for Jack bursted it completely. It gave her perspective that there is really much more to live out there and she did (we briefly see the pictures of her travels and adventures in the film). So, despite being sad the fact he died, he really gave her a beautiful present: the courage to live a life of her own. Their love is really inspiring in my opinion and does not create an illusion, but teach us to keep loving ourselves no matter what.
Shay Renna –
I’d love to see a therapist’s review on Barney & Robin from HIMYM
aishah abdelnoor –
Men and women cant be friends
fla la –
Nick & Jess (New Girl)
Mindy & Danny (The Mindy Project)
Andie & Blane /Molly Ringwald & Andrew McCarthy (Pretty In Pink)
Declan & Anne (Leap Year)
Catherine Casas –
I'm not sure any of these were a representation of a relationship where 1 partner had borderline personality disorder. I think that might have helped me figure some things out.
Blondieelife –
The notebook
AlumniArmy –
Let them react to Magnus and Alex
Miles St. John –
i miss you omar
Nachochild –
I honestly loved the way how this guy put every single point straight, and actually what happens in every relationship and every kind . at what stage. This is truly beautiful and accurate enough to make it short and understandable for non-therapists and non-psychologists.
estefany louie –
i came for Titanic.
Lucy Danko –
ngl i really wanted him to do jim and pam
fravels –
The guy is cute thoo
Grace Bolster –
You kind of look like Brendan Urie
Alexandria Bocco –
You should do classically trained musicians like Hilary Hahn reviewing musicians in the movie! That stuff is hilarious
pikaseel –
Imagine how he would've reacted if they showed Christian and Anastasia
Yuri Silva –
He should react to Romeo and Juliet
Levi Garrett –
Married with children Al and Peggy…
THE EYE –
You know what vernoica and jd should be here but will all know what the answer is
SPEAKSis! –
I wonder if he’s seen “The Breakup.” That has one of the most realistic endings when it comes to relationships
The Sypwer –
This is why i love Brendon Urie, he gives the best relationship advice
MsLm_97 –
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo when's part 2 coming out?
Sapphire Reacts –
lets not forget, Willow did a memory spell on Tara and caused an issue in their relationship
Evelyn –
OMG Willow and Tara are here!!